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3 Things You Don’t Need to Achieve Success (and 3 Things You Do)

There are many things students assume they need for future career success. Here's the truth of what you do and don't need from a successful professional.

I haven’t always been successful. When I was 20 years old, I was a mother to an 18-month-old son, my husband had just left us, and I didn’t have a job or a college degree. I was far from being considered “successful.” Flash-forward 30 years, and I was appointed the world’s first female CEO of a semiconductor company. When you face setbacks and challenges, you may find yourself in a position where you have nothing to lose. It becomes an opportunity to take risks, embrace change, and explore new possibilities. My path to success was circuitous, but it showed me what you need on the journey to success, plus what isn’t necessary.

3 things you don’t need to achieve success

Many people think having money, connections, and a top-tier academic pedigree are critical to achieving success. While those things can make your journey easier, here’s why my experiences demonstrate that they aren’t necessary to achieve your dreams.

1. Wealth

I was on welfare without a dollar to my name when I decided to build a better life for me and my son. Through a clear vision and dogged determination (and sacrifice), I demonstrated that it isn’t about where you start—it's about where you aim to go. Rather than focusing on monetary wealth and where you’re at right now, lean into your passions and purpose, and find the value you can bring to the table. These things will have a much greater impact on your future than your bank account.

2. Connections

While having a network of influential contacts can open doors, it’s not a prerequisite for success. Why? Well, you can always put yourself out there and meet others; it’s never too late to network. When I was a novice dairy farmer, I began without connections and had hundreds of questions. So I reached out to farmers who knew their stuff, and many of them were willing to share their knowledge with me. Don’t be afraid to introduce yourself and ask questions. You never know who is kind and willing to help.

3. An Ivy League education

Attending an Ivy League institution can provide many opportunities, but thankfully, it’s not the sole path to educational and career success. In my case, I started at a two-year school, receiving an AA and AS in Electrical Engineering Technology from Orange County Community College (SUNY Orange) before going on to major in Electrical Engineering and minor in Computer Science at Farleigh Dickinson University. Education is essential, but it's the thirst for knowledge, curiosity, and continuous learning that truly propel learners forward, regardless of where you study.

Related: The Benefits and Drawbacks of Attending an Ivy League College

3 things you do need to achieve success

There are certain qualities you need for success that are more important than wealth, connections, and an Ivy League education. The good news is that you probably already have them to some extent and may just need to continue developing them.

1. A problem-solving attitude

A problem-solving attitude means that you actively seek solutions and approach challenges as positive opportunities for growth. You should shape a mindset that allows you to address problems with curiosity, analytical thinking, and a willingness to explore the possibilities. Navigating your career can feel a bit like a maze with high walls and dead ends. But rest assured, there’s always a way to your end goal if you just keep looking.

2. Creativity

While creativity looks different for everyone, for me, it relates to the way I solve problems. Each time I build a team, I examine the talent gaps, or “white spaces,” and consider options for filling them. Do I find new talent or develop the skills within my existing circle? This kind of creative thinking leads to better outcomes for my team’s goals. Regardless of your industry or role, consider the people and resources at your disposal and think of ways you can best utilize them. Problem-solving can be an art form.

3. Grit

Grit is the perseverance and unwavering determination to pursue long-term goals despite setbacks, failures, or adversity. It is the ability to maintain focus, passion, and resilience in the face of these difficulties. For me, this is the most important thing a person needs to achieve success. I’ve found that establishing a North Star, or a set of principles or priorities, is helpful to guide my steps. Once you establish your North Star, follow it devoutly, but adjust its position if needed as your goals change with time. If you come to a dead end on your quest, seek an alternate route. If you have grit, then you’ll find a way—always.

Related: 10 Ways to Prepare Now for a Great Life After College

Adversity can be a catalyst for personal growth and success. Sure, having advantages like wealth, connections, and an Ivy League education can create a comfortable environment, but it can also ironically hinder personal growth. Overcoming adversity instills a sense of determination and resourcefulness that can drive you to surpass expectations and seize even greater opportunities. Utilize the things your adversity provides you to go on and do great things.

Read more about Chris’s tips for success and inspiring life journey at ChristineKing.com or in her book, Breaking Through the Silicon Ceiling. And if you’re looking for a great academic institution that will help support you on your way to success, try using our College Search tool!

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